Saturday, March 12, 2011

Conclusion, already...

As you probably can guess, today, we are here just to talk about girls once again, or more exactly, we will continue our previous discussion. I want to apologize to my readers (if there are any) that I have not been posting any articles for such a long time. Anyway, now I am here, I intend tell you something new, hopefully. The last time we stopped on such girls' trait as unpredictability, and today, we will continue with some others.
First of all, I would like to start with such a wonderful temperamental attribute as a moodiness. What does it really mean? Here is a definition by Collins dictionary: "If you describe someone as moody, you mean that their feelings and behaviour change frequently, and in particular that they often become depressed or angry without any warning." So, if we are talking about girls, then we can say for sure that they are very moody, and if you disagree, then I will give you some examples, which will prove it. How often happens that you talk to a girl with which you just have friendly relations, or dating, and her mood changes dramatically, if you say something she does not like. Sometimes it seems like girls' mood changes in a flick. 
For instance, there was a case with the friend of  mine. Let's call him Jack. There was a case with him (actually, this might happen with any guy, and probably many times, but anyway), when he sent his greetings about International Woman's Day to his girlfriend. He gifted wonderful, in his opinion, bouquet of 11 red roses. Moreover, his girlfriend really liked it, and radiated overwhelming happiness. Undoubtedly, she called to her friend to boast the bouquet. The conversations looked like: Jack's girlfriend: "Listen, my Jack has gifted me a bouquet of 11 red roses, it so wonderful, so wonderful... ". Her friend: "Oh, really?! It is cool! You know, my boyfriend has gifted me a gold ring..." After that, according to Jack, his girlfriend became as though she was substituted. Her mood changed dramatically, and she was only worrying why he had gifted only this little bouquet of 11 roses.
Probably, it is quite specific example, but it really happens. The point was that I wanted to show you, how girls' mood can change, and in most cases it changes fast in a bad sense. While, you, guys, have to make many efforts to change their mood in a good sense!=) 
Gradually, we are coming to the next topic of our discussion, as you can suspect it will be another trait of girls' character. This trait is responsible for making guys to take different kinds of efforts in order to satisfy the needs of their girlfriends. Yes, you are right, it is what all the guys are afraid of, and it is demand. In my opinion, all the girls tend to be demanding. This demand shows up in different situations, on different levels. However, the most significant fundamental need is in an attention. All the girls require much much much much much much attention from guys. In this sense, attention means by itself  making presents to girls with or without reason, go to the cinema, and restaurants. Sometimes, girls are ready to do many things, in order to attract this attention from their boyfriends.
For example, there is quite common case which happens many times with guys (fortunately, it has never happened to me), or at least it happens once, and guys are becoming very careful, and trying to be very attentive in all senses of this word. Just imagine how it happens...Your girlfriend has visited a hairdressing salon and cut her hairs a little bit, maybe she also has changed their color. Now, there will be a culmination of this event... When she came home, you did not pay attention to all these changes. In turn, your girlfriend throws a fit, or takes offence, at best. She is starting to blame you that you have not payed any attention to it, have not even notice her new hairstyle, and so on. Moreover, all this is positioned as the things done for you. At the same time, all the thoughts that can come to your mind are: "In fact, the hairs are shorter just a couple of centimeters, than before, and the color has been changed to a semitone. Why the hell do you need it as her boyfriend?! After all these changes, you have not started to love her more, or less..." As a result, eventually, you are a selfish bastard, which pays little attention to his girlfriend, or, moreover, do not do it at all.
Thus, it is very important to be attentive to your girlfriends. You should keep in mind that even such, on the face of it, trifle matter as forgetting how the dress, in which your girlfriend was on your first date, looked like, might cost you a lot.
Finally, we have come to the last feature of girls' character, which significantly distinguish them from guys. It is a tendency to be vulnerable. Probably, we should not discuss this trait so much, because girls are weak (in the finest sense of the word) and delicate creatures, and they must be so. On turn, guys should understand it, and avoid cases, when they can hurt girls' feelings. For example, there was a story, told me by someone,I do not really remember by whom, but it is not the most important. So, there was a couple, and they lived together. Sometimes, a girl took a car of his boyfriend... Now, you probably have some ideas what happened then. Yes, you are right, she damaged the car, fortunately, the girl was fine. However, I wanted to tell you how the conversation between the girl and her boyfriend were going, when she tried to inform him about hit car, or what had left from it. Just imagine... The girl: "Honey, I have damaged the car. I have no idea how it happened, but that stub post appeared from nowhere on the parking area. I am so sorry..." The guy: "What?! You did what?! What the stub pots?! What the parking area?! Are you kidding me?! My new car?! What the hell?!?!?!?!?!" (as you can see the guy is quite curious, and he has many questions to ask at once). Also, it is obviously, that he was saying it with quite high and loud intonation, in other words, he was yelling. After that happened something fantastic, his girl friend said: "Why do you shout at me?! You can not imagine how I frightened when it happened, and how I am feeling bad right now. You are hard-hearted!" And she started to cry. Everything that that guy could do at that case was to apologize to her for his behaviour. As you can see, because of sensitivity, and vulnerability, the girl could turn everything to her profit. MORAL: Guys, do not shout at the girls, if they break your car or do something like this, otherwise, you will have to apologize.
Overall, we have gone through all the adjectives, which can characterize girls more or less. In my opinion, these characteristics cover the larges side of their nature. Thus, I can also conclude, that this topic can be closed. Anyway, I invite all of you to leave comments, and opinions, I will read them with great pleasure! I addition, do not hesitate ask your questions, I will answer to them gladly! See you in later publications! 

5 comments:

  1. These characteristics absolutely do not cover the largest side of the girls' nature! Or does if talking about some typical teen girls of nowadays, but older girls, I can say women, don't behave like these in general. What a foolish habit to judge all being familiar with only some simple cases of some stupid girls. Man are not so better too, but I don't think it make sense to define all the disadvantages of people who are all completely different! Moreover, what can you say having no real experience in it?! To speak about the topic it is needed to be experienced in it by ur own at least..But, anyway too much text, just muddling the water..but nice effort) The problem is that you should have contributed smth new in the topic, otherwise no sense is there. Proof can be simple - where are advantages of the girls? Of course, there are no because bad things are about noticing much better, aren’t they? I see at once who is experienced and who is not. You are too young man to apply your thoughts here. I hope you will be adequate to my criticism)

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  2. Yes, I have one question:

    Why don't you follow your own brilliant advises?

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  3. I do not really understand what exact advice which I am not following you mean. Can you specify it please? In addition, I have a question to you: were we dating, or maybe we were living together, as you ask such a question?

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  4. You're living in a very small world.

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  5. Come on!!! You all take these articles too seriously!

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