Conclusion, already...

As you probably can guess, today, we are here just to talk about girls once again, or more exactly, we will continue our previous discussion. I want to apologize to my readers (if there are any) that I have not been posting any articles for such a long time. Anyway, now I am here, I intend tell you something new, hopefully. The last time we stopped on such girls' trait as unpredictability, and today, we will continue with some others.
First of all, I would like to start with such a wonderful temperamental attribute as a moodiness. What does it really mean? Here is a definition by Collins dictionary: "If you describe someone as moody, you mean that their feelings and behaviour change frequently, and in particular that they often become depressed or angry without any warning." So, if we are talking about girls, then we can say for sure that they are very moody, and if you disagree, then I will give you some examples, which will prove it. How often happens that you talk to a girl with which you just have friendly relations, or dating, and her mood changes dramatically, if you say something she does not like. Sometimes it seems like girls' mood changes in a flick. 

For instance, there was a case with the friend of  mine. Let's call him Jack. There was a case with him (actually, this might happen with any guy, and probably many times, but anyway), when he sent his greetings about International Woman's Day to his girlfriend. He gifted wonderful, in his opinion, bouquet of 11 red roses. Moreover, his girlfriend really liked it, and radiated overwhelming happiness. Undoubtedly, she called to her friend to boast the bouquet. The conversations looked like: Jack's girlfriend: "Listen, my Jack has gifted me a bouquet of 11 red roses, it so wonderful, so wonderful... ". Her friend: "Oh, really?! It is cool! You know, my boyfriend has gifted me a gold ring..." After that, according to Jack, his girlfriend became as though she was substituted. Her mood changed dramatically, and she was only worrying why he had gifted only this little bouquet of 11 roses.

Probably, it is quite specific example, but it really happens. The point was that I wanted to show you, how girls' mood can change, and in most cases it changes fast in a bad sense. While, you, guys, have to make many efforts to change their mood in a good sense!=) 

Gradually, we are coming to the next topic of our discussion, as you can suspect it will be another trait of girls' character. This trait is responsible for making guys to take different kinds of efforts in order to satisfy the needs of their girlfriends. Yes, you are right, it is what all the guys are afraid of, and it is demand. In my opinion, all the girls tend to be demanding. This demand shows up in different situations, on different levels. However, the most significant fundamental need is in an attention. All the girls require much much much much much much attention from guys. In this sense, attention means by itself  making presents to girls with or without reason, go to the cinema, and restaurants. Sometimes, girls are ready to do many things, in order to attract this attention from their boyfriends.

For example, there is quite common case which happens many times with guys (fortunately, it has never happened to me), or at least it happens once, and guys are becoming very careful, and trying to be very attentive in all senses of this word. Just imagine how it happens...Your girlfriend has visited a hairdressing salon and cut her hairs a little bit, maybe she also has changed their color. Now, there will be a culmination of this event... When she came home, you did not pay attention to all these changes. In turn, your girlfriend throws a fit, or takes offence, at best. She is starting to blame you that you have not payed any attention to it, have not even notice her new hairstyle, and so on. Moreover, all this is positioned as the things done for you. At the same time, all the thoughts that can come to your mind are: "In fact, the hairs are shorter just a couple of centimeters, than before, and the color has been changed to a semitone. Why the hell do you need it as her boyfriend?! After all these changes, you have not started to love her more, or less..." As a result, eventually, you are a selfish bastard, which pays little attention to his girlfriend, or, moreover, do not do it at all.

Thus, it is very important to be attentive to your girlfriends. You should keep in mind that even such, on the face of it, trifle matter as forgetting how the dress, in which your girlfriend was on your first date, looked like, might cost you a lot.

Finally, we have come to the last feature of girls' character, which significantly distinguish them from guys. It is a tendency to be vulnerable. Probably, we should not discuss this trait so much, because girls are weak (in the finest sense of the word) and delicate creatures, and they must be so. On turn, guys should understand it, and avoid cases, when they can hurt girls' feelings. For example, there was a story, told me by someone,I do not really remember by whom, but it is not the most important. So, there was a couple, and they lived together. Sometimes, a girl took a car of his boyfriend... Now, you probably have some ideas what happened then. Yes, you are right, she damaged the car, fortunately, the girl was fine. However, I wanted to tell you how the conversation between the girl and her boyfriend were going, when she tried to inform him about hit car, or what had left from it. Just imagine... The girl: "Honey, I have damaged the car. I have no idea how it happened, but that stub post appeared from nowhere on the parking area. I am so sorry..." The guy: "What?! You did what?! What the stub pots?! What the parking area?! Are you kidding me?! My new car?! What the hell?!?!?!?!?!" (as you can see the guy is quite curious, and he has many questions to ask at once). Also, it is obviously, that he was saying it with quite high and loud intonation, in other words, he was yelling. After that happened something fantastic, his girl friend said: "Why do you shout at me?! You can not imagine how I frightened when it happened, and how I am feeling bad right now. You are hard-hearted!" And she started to cry. Everything that that guy could do at that case was to apologize to her for his behaviour. As you can see, because of sensitivity, and vulnerability, the girl could turn everything to her profit. MORAL: Guys, do not shout at the girls, if they break your car or do something like this, otherwise, you will have to apologize.

Overall, we have gone through all the adjectives, which can characterize girls more or less. In my opinion, these characteristics cover the larges side of their nature. Thus, I can also conclude, that this topic can be closed. Anyway, I invite all of you to leave comments, and opinions, I will read them with great pleasure! I addition, do not hesitate ask your questions, I will answer to them gladly! See you in later publications! 

Introduction

        

Today, I am here just to talk about  girls.  Yeah, yeah, yeah, about girls, again... Why not?  I am a boy, and I was born to talk about girls. I can say it, because girls were born to be an object of our discussion, and we do it with big pleasure (just remember the history of creating a woman). Ok, and now we will turn to some core questions will be discussed in this article. Who does really know how to behave with girls? What do all girls want from guys? Probably, the most important, how to keep strong relationships with girls? A little hint must be done here, there will not be fiction, every my article will be based only on my own experience, and my opinion, or opinions I have heard from friends.

Some of the readers (especially girls) can say: "Why do guys discuss girls every time, and try to accuse of them for their actions". I want to acquit men from all of the world: "Men do it, because they love girls." 

For those, who is not familiar with a term "a girl", I can give a deffinition. Firstly, I can refer to a deffinition from Wikipedia, I am almost sure that you have never checked it: "A girl is any female from birth through childhood and adolescence to attainment of adulthood. The term may also be used to mean a young woman." Undoubtedly, this deffinition does not tell about psychological features of girls' mind (human mind is divided into male and female), that's why it should be amplifed a bit. I would add: "Girls are very moody, vulnerable,  unpredictable, and demanding creatures." Now, I have to make a hint for guys, do not delude yourself by saying: "Is it all about girls, only four adjectives?" No, no , no... be careful, these four adjectives cover quite many sides of female character, especially the last one, but we will talk about it later. Ok, now we know something about girls, or more exactly, you know what I know about girls. In real life, these adjectives are not useful, at least for me...because girls are much more complicated in understanding. However, at the same time, it makes them very interesting. Now, we are gradually comming to one of the core adjectives mentioned above - unpredictable. I have a couple of questions, one is for guys, and one is for girls. "Guys, have you ever known beforehand, what you girl is going to do, or to say?". "Girls, have you ever known beforehand, what you are going to do, or to say?" I can answer to the first quiestion, as I am a guy: "No, I have never known." Also, I can try to answer to the second question too: "Yes, they know." BUT, I have to add something at this point, girls know beforehand not because they analyze as many possible concequences and find as many alternatives, but because it does not matter what guys say or do, girls will act as they wanted at the beginning.  For example, I know one story, and it happened to my friend. Now you should turn on your imagination. Tom (let's call my friend Tom) and his girlfriend just have moved to common appartment, it is serious and very liable step in relationships. They spent all their free time together doing the same things. But, you, probably, know that it is almost impossible to spend all your free time with your half, and sometimes you need to be with your friends. The first time (I count from that day, when they moved to a new appartment), Tom planned to go, and have some fun with his friends, but he did not know how to inform his girlfriend. He decided not to say about friends, and said that he had some business to do (it was a big mistake). When his girlfriend found out what he really did (played PS2 at friend's home), she was very angry. She shouted at him, and blamed him that he did not love her. The second time, when Tom had become smarter and more experienced in this question, he decided to say his girlfriend about his plans in advance (it was a big mistake). Just imagine, Tom:-"Listen, honey, I am going to play PS2 tonight with guys. You can call your friends, and spend your time with them." Tom's girlfriend:- "WHAT??? You leave me alone, how can you do it?! Your friends are more important for you, than me. You do not love me." Thus, does it matter what to say in such kind of situations, you will get the same result at the end. That is the story.

You can say, it is not "unpredictability", in contrast, you can predict the consequences. No, you can not, girls will surprise you anyway, you will hear what you did not expect to hear. One day, when you have experienced all the situations, you can predict what is going to be next, but it is impossible. You need to live together for a long, long time until this day has come. Guys, be careful when you are going to do something, or to say.

Unfortunately, I have to stop the introduction part here for today, but the topic will be continued. Please, add you questions and comments, I will answer to them with a big pleasure.